Hi,
Your connection string is like this:
<add key="MSSQLConnectionString" value="server=localhost\SQLExpress;UID=mojouser;PWD=mojo123;database=mojoPortalTutorial" />
The instance name is in bold and needs to match what you used for the instance name when you installed SQLExpress, or if it was installed as a default instance you would remove "\SQLExpress" and just have localhost
You don't really need to enable remote connections if the web site is on the same machine as the database, in fact its better for security not to unless you really need to let other machines conect to the sql server on your dev machine.
Hope that helps,
Joe